Find Men For An Extra Marital Affair in Hertfordshire

Want a spark

Im just a normal guy looking to feel that spark again and being honest just want to feel wanted and needed again after 15 years of a marriage that has turned into mates and co parenting and a struggle. Love eating out and chatting and flirting! .... [read more]

Religion Agnostic/None Eye Colour Blue
Drinking Non-Drinker Hair Colour Brown
Smoking Non-Smoker Build Average
Height 6'0'' (183cm) or above Education College
Occupation Management/HR Age 49
Interests Theatre / Ballet, Hiking / Camping, Travel / Sightseeing, Politics, Movies / Cinema, Football / Soccer / Rugby, Cooking, Golf, Food and Wine, Tennis / Racket Sports

Jonny Guitar

Life’s too short for dull conversations and chemistry that needs a jump-start. I’m a professional working musician, so I know a thing or two about rhythm, timing, and creating a little tension… 😉 I’m fluent in sarcasm, easily persuaded .... [read more]

Religion Other Eye Colour Brown
Drinking Light / Social Drinker Hair Colour Other
Smoking Non-Smoker Build Average
Height 6'0'' (183cm) or above Education College
Occupation Advert/Media/Entertain Age 54
Interests

Northern Guy Down South

Hi! Not really sure what to write here but i thought better to write my own! Am looking to find a connection with someone so that we can enjoy some shared adventures and laughs together !.... [read more]

Religion Eye Colour
Drinking Hair Colour
Smoking Build
Height Education
Occupation Age 49
Interests

Blue-sky89

Playful intelligent guy seeks playmate for conversation and discreet relationship or more.... [read more]

Religion Atheist Eye Colour Blue
Drinking Light / Social Drinker Hair Colour Light Brown
Smoking Non-Smoker Build Athletic
Height 6'0'' (183cm) or above Education Bachelors Degree
Occupation Financial Services Age 46
Interests Athletics, Gardening, Sailing / Boating, Cricket, Ice / Snow Sports, Football / Soccer / Rugby, Tennis / Racket Sports, Golf, Water Sports, Gym / Aerobics, Food and Wine

Oliver1649

Physically active and well educated gent here. I cycle, walk my dogs, read a lot and love history. It's a cliche on here I realise, but I lack intimacy and passion. I would love to meet a lady in a similar situation to share friendship and amoro.... [read more]

Religion Agnostic/None Eye Colour Blue
Drinking Light / Social Drinker Hair Colour Brown
Smoking Non-Smoker Build Average
Height 5'7''-5'11'' (170-180cm) Education Bachelors Degree
Occupation Self-employed Age 61
Interests

Occultum

Like many people here, life has taken me on an unexpected journey. I am looking to meet someone who understands that relationships can be complicated and who values discretion, honesty, and kindness. I am a medical professional.and am over 50 and .... [read more]

Religion Atheist Eye Colour Brown
Drinking Light / Social Drinker Hair Colour Black
Smoking Non-Smoker Build Average
Height 5'7''-5'11'' (170-180cm) Education Doctoral Degree/Ph.D
Occupation Healthcare & Medical Age 55
Interests Museums / Galleries, Music - Latin, Music - World, Literature / History, Dancing

Remaining Hopeful

I wonder if anyone on here has ever found this easy? If you're too nice about yourself, you sound arrogant. If you play it down, you might make yourself sound unappealing. The words I picked from the Profile Wizard were ... cheerful, affectionate,.... [read more]

Religion Agnostic/None Eye Colour Hazel
Drinking Light / Social Drinker Hair Colour White / Grey
Smoking Non-Smoker Build Average
Height 5'7''-5'11'' (170-180cm) Education Graduate/Masters Degree
Occupation Self-employed Age 53
Interests Literature / History, Music - Alternative, Travel / Sightseeing, Cycling, Music - Classical / Opera, Movies / Cinema, Football / Soccer / Rugby, Music - Blues/Jazz, Food and Wine, Martial Arts, Music - Pop / R&B, Athletics, Music - Rock, Ice / Snow Sports

Strider61

Married for a long time, with two flown the nest kids, I am looking for a romantic adventure. Love lively conversation, sharing encounters, funny stories and clever wit. Interested in most things really, books, theatre, cinema, politics, sport etc I .... [read more]

Religion Agnostic/None Eye Colour Blue
Drinking Regular Drinker Hair Colour Brown
Smoking Non-Smoker Build Slim
Height 5'7''-5'11'' (170-180cm) Education Graduate/Masters Degree
Occupation Construction Age 65
Interests

Striker10725

Perhaps it's best to tell you: People generally describe me as loyal and dependable. I'm partial to a bit of Apocalypse Now and Shawshank Redemption. I disfavour Apocalypse Now. My music taste is very The Beatles and Fleetwood Mac, not very.... [read more]

Religion Atheist Eye Colour Brown
Drinking Light / Social Drinker Hair Colour Light Brown
Smoking Non-Smoker Build Athletic
Height 6'0'' (183cm) or above Education College
Occupation Self-employed Age 74
Interests Football / Soccer / Rugby

SubtleRhythms

[Profile refreshed, Sep-2026] Married, discreet, and with no desire to complicate anyone’s life. I work in technology in London and have a pretty full life outside it. I trail run, sometimes for distances that make some people question my jud.... [read more]

Religion Agnostic/None Eye Colour Grey
Drinking Light / Social Drinker Hair Colour Blonde
Smoking Non-Smoker Build Athletic
Height 5'7''-5'11'' (170-180cm) Education Graduate/Masters Degree
Occupation Management/HR Age 56
Interests Computers / Internet, Music - Alternative, Music - Blues/Jazz, Music - Rock, Football / Soccer / Rugby, Gym / Aerobics

Sargent G

Tall, slightly dark and handsome. Broad, lightly bearded and cuddly. Dry, deadpan sense of humour. I like people who can talk about real things, laugh at ridiculous things, and know that chemistry doesn’t happen endlessly through a screen. I’m.... [read more]

Religion Jewish Eye Colour Hazel
Drinking Light / Social Drinker Hair Colour Brown
Smoking Light / Social smoker Build Cuddly
Height 6'0'' (183cm) or above Education Bachelors Degree
Occupation Management/HR Age 50
Interests Politics, Music - Blues/Jazz, Cooking, Literature / History, Music - Latin, Food and Wine, Cycling, Music - Pop / R&B, Singing / Playing Instrument, Music - Rock, Volleyball / Basketball, Music - World, Movies / Cinema

jbHerts

Right.. I've got rid of that awful AI generated intro... I'm looking for someone to help me find the 'old me'... like lots of people here I'm in a pretty loveless marriage but not looking to change my home situation.. just.... [read more]

Religion Agnostic/None Eye Colour Brown
Drinking Light / Social Drinker Hair Colour Bald
Smoking 'Recreational' Smoker Build Average
Height 5'7''-5'11'' (170-180cm) Education Bachelors Degree
Occupation Sales & Marketing Age 46
Interests Cricket

draganche

Hey there, Im a skiinstructor who lives for that perfect carve, a carpenter who turns raw timber into solid, functional art, a kitchenfitter who makes every countertop feel like home, and a cook/baker who believes the best recipes start with a pi.... [read more]

Religion Other Eye Colour Blue
Drinking Light / Social Drinker Hair Colour White / Grey
Smoking Non-Smoker Build Slim
Height 5'7''-5'11'' (170-180cm) Education Graduate/Masters Degree
Occupation Education & Science Age 58
Interests Football / Soccer / Rugby, Astrology / New Age, Tennis / Racket Sports, Martial Arts, Cars / Motorcycles, Volleyball / Basketball, Motor Racing, Gardening, Computers / Internet, Athletics, Nightclubs / Clubs, Cooking, Mountaineering, Cycling, Food and Wine, Ice / Snow Sports

James3330

Let me paint a picture… Call me nostalgic, but I prefer James Bond and Shawshank Redemption wins hands down, I'm less fond of The Big Lebowski. I'm all about Lionel Richie and Ed Sheeran, but Hip Hop is a pass. I'd confidently say I&.... [read more]

Religion Church of England Eye Colour Blue
Drinking Light / Social Drinker Hair Colour Light Brown
Smoking Non-Smoker Build Average
Height 5'7''-5'11'' (170-180cm) Education High/Secondary school
Occupation Sales & Marketing Age 62
Interests Football / Soccer / Rugby, Movies / Cinema, Food and Wine

hertfordshireguy74

Looking for someone to build a new and exciting connection with. I want the lust, passion and butterflies that this all brings. I fully understand the rules from a previous affair, and i expect the same in return. I understand how sometimes it ca.... [read more]

Religion Agnostic/None Eye Colour Blue
Drinking Light / Social Drinker Hair Colour Brown
Smoking Non-Smoker Build Average
Height 6'0'' (183cm) or above Education Bachelors Degree
Occupation Management/HR Age 52
Interests Movies / Cinema, Nature, Cooking, Cars / Motorcycles, Food and Wine, Dancing, Theatre / Ballet, Travel / Sightseeing